O.K. so one of the biggest things that come into play when one starts dating is our past. So over the past few days I have come to realize that a specific person that I am seeing is getting a little more "under" my skin than I anticipated. I started this second round of interaction with my eyes more open than the last, I didn't want to fall as quickly as I did before. BUT like most women we have a hard time separating our love of the sheets and the love of the men that take us to wonderful places....along with the help of our battery operated devices.
So I was psychoanalyzing my current situation with a friend of mine. Actually I think that my emotions are running high right now just due to my current HORMONAL time...so most of this conversation was me being unrealistic; one theme that came out was our ghosts that we carry from previous relationships. How often do we catch ourselves looking for our current love interest to "DO" that one thing that we hated about our ex? I refer to mine as BC (Before Chuck)...before him I was a very open, and trusting person. Not that I am not now...but I do catch myself being a little too critical of what is happening around me...thanks asshole. So....talking to my girlfriends, I see that we all have those same ghosts in our rooms. How can we carry all these extra people in our current relationships? When can we get rid of all these ghosts? Is it possible?
Is there an exorcism that we can perform to clear us of all the hauntings we have? But then again, do we want to? If our ghosts from relationship past are not there can we truly grow?
Happy Haunting!
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