Remember High School? Oh yeah, when you liked a boy....you flirted, he flirted back. You got your VERY best friend in the whole world to talk to his friends to see if he liked you...then you find out he does and then he asks you to be his girlfriend....OH THOSE were the days. He walked you to class....held your books...called you on the phone....sat next to you at lunch...and wrote you cute little notes telling you how happy he was to have asked you out. Things were so much simpler then.
So, now you are older....much more mature.....now you text his friends to see if he is interested...you no longer have to go through your friends to do it. And there is sex involved now....and might I add...as women get older...THE SEX is awesome! I am not sure if it is because we are more comfortable with who we are, or cause we are more apt to speak our minds and say.."no not there...move over a little to the left....use the vibrator I took out....yes we DO need more LUBE....!"O.K., so you meet up with him at TGIFridays and as he walks in for the first time and you look at him and think, HOLY FUCK this guy is a HOTTIE! His eyes are piercing, he has the best smile that you have seen in a long time...and his body is fucking incredible. And like any normal wholesome young lady....you go back to his place to fuck him like the animal he is. And might I add......HE NEVER has to worry about his size mattering... :) So, here we are talking, sharing stories of our lives....meeting friends....family....going to parties...and many other things that a "couple" would do...BUT here is the question....ARE YOU A COUPLE? Are the two of you exclusive? Are you seeing others? When does he place his school pin on your sweater? It was so much simpler in high school....if a guy was calling you on the phone and meeting you by your locker then everyone knew that you two were an exclusive item...NOW, even though he may be sticking his cock in every orface of your body (a few times a night......mmmmmmm...NO WASTE of calories here) it does not mean that the two of you are exclusive. He could still be receiving a nice happy ending from the girl next door...(and in my case is someone I know...SO I KNOW thats not happening....LOL). How do we ask? Do we just say " are we exclusive?" ..."are we an item?"...."are we dating?"....I know that many of you may think that, if a man and women are spending most of their time together and they are fucking a few times a week...then they would be able to safely assume that the relationship was exclusive....yep, I would think that too...BC...now I know how much of an ass one becomes when they assume.
Note to self...the R & C factor are things that men shy away from fast....so even though it looks...feels...smells...and tastes like a relationship...as long as they don't have to add that word..they are SAFE!
“I've been dating since I was fifteen. I'm exhausted. Where is he?” Charlotte from Sex and the City
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